Comments on: Is Dating Today Really “Impossible”? https://matthewhussey.com/blog/pushes-them-away/ Have The Love Life You Want Thu, 19 Sep 2024 00:21:45 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.2 By: Jess https://matthewhussey.com/blog/pushes-them-away/#comment-1226325 Wed, 18 Sep 2024 17:59:33 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=92550#comment-1226325 Absolutely one of your best videos.
This is EXACTLY what I do and it helped to reassure me that I am on the right track! The bad news is that many people get filtered out by not replying, not playing along, not offering their little piece of vulnerability and just plain getting scared off for the same reason you described about followers.
Thank you Mathew!

]]> By: Leticia https://matthewhussey.com/blog/pushes-them-away/#comment-1226237 Tue, 17 Sep 2024 14:08:55 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=92550#comment-1226237 Oh, thank you for that! I’m the kind of person who takes the lead, is caring, lovely, etc., but it turns out that I always get hurt at the end of the day because guys mistake my kindness with availability and take for granted I like them.
After your video, I realized I should not change my way of being, I only should break up sooner with the ones who start showing red lights.

]]> By: Pernilla https://matthewhussey.com/blog/pushes-them-away/#comment-1226209 Tue, 17 Sep 2024 08:16:20 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=92550#comment-1226209 In reply to Luis.

Are you ok? « Please try and be less  ». Makes me want to give you a hug and a cinnamon-bun. With lots of extras

]]> By: Nadiia https://matthewhussey.com/blog/pushes-them-away/#comment-1226083 Sun, 15 Sep 2024 18:51:27 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=92550#comment-1226083 Thank you for this post and video. I am very affectionate. I like kissing partner, constantly hugging, calling sweathaeart. I am single after a narc divorce for 3 y we rs now and Am trying dating. The last man I lined seemed very cold and distant. I made a conclusion that he doesn’t match me and won’t be able to satisfy my needs. But watching your video I kinda am curious, maybe I jumped the gun. He loves animals, volunteers, lost a dog and likes children.

]]> By: Luis https://matthewhussey.com/blog/pushes-them-away/#comment-1226073 Sun, 15 Sep 2024 18:11:55 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=92550#comment-1226073 Your text is so long, and you repeat the same concept over and over.
Please try to be less.
Thanks.
Luis

]]> By: Terry https://matthewhussey.com/blog/pushes-them-away/#comment-1226052 Sun, 15 Sep 2024 15:55:58 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=92550#comment-1226052 This was timely. Yesterday, I chatted with my beloved about wanting him to lead more when making plans. He’s crazy busy with his work and family obligations, and it seems that I’m usually the one making plans. That can feel uncomfortable because it requires a different kind of energy than I’m used to. Your video showed me that it’s not only okay for me to take the lead but that it’s probably helpful to the relationship in some ways. Thank you for the advice!

]]> By: Amy https://matthewhussey.com/blog/pushes-them-away/#comment-1226048 Sun, 15 Sep 2024 14:23:57 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=92550#comment-1226048 This is brilliant thank you so much for this, be a leader not a follower in dating but also in life!

]]> By: Suha https://matthewhussey.com/blog/pushes-them-away/#comment-1226046 Sun, 15 Sep 2024 13:53:12 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=92550#comment-1226046 One of the best videos I have watched.

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